My Nan turned 80 this year. She is one of those Nan ’s you read about in fairytales or see in the movies, a little bit parent, a little bit teacher and a little bit best friend. She has gently guided her children, grandchildren and now great-grandchildren through life with a loving hand and a warm smile. Everything she does and says is done with a gentle kindness and soft grace I only associate with my Nan and no other.
She has taught us patience and old fashioned good manners, to appreciate the simple things in life and also to celebrate in style and elegance. How to live like a princess whether you have a little or a lot and how to be a wife and mother with love and kindness.
So how did we celebrate this special ladies birthday?
With high tea fit for a queen of course. Complete with formal invitations and beautiful home cooking from my amazing sister who takes after my Nan in the kitchen department. My Nan and her prince charming my Pop arrived by stretch limousine to be greeted by family and friends and the excitement of great-grandchildren.
The special relationships we have with my Nan , wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother were celebrated throughout the day by a series of small gifts each with a special note and a matching babushka doll. At the end of the day the babushka dolls are all nested together inside the warm embrace of my loving Nan, each one representing a new generation starting with this amazing lady and finishing with the great grand-children, this is the circle of my special family.
There is a song written by Taylor Swift “The Best Days” and every time I hear it I am reminded of drinking chocolate milkshakes and eating peanut cookies in my Nan ’s kitchen every Tuesday and Thursday after school. While Nan and Pop sit with me and ask about my day at school and my friends. The lyrics of this song is what I wrote in my Nan’s card and I will forever get goose bumps when I hear it and think of this special day.
The milkshakes and cookies have now been replaced with coffee and donuts every Tuesday morning be it rain, hail or shine. When my two boys were little they would come along too and be spoilt as I was when I was little. But they are getting bigger now and have gone off to school, so now it is back to just me, it doesn’t matter how busy I am or what I have going on my number one priority every Tuesday is morning tea with Nan and Pop. I wouldn’t miss it for the world.
So Christmas has arrived and the thoughts of what to get all the special people in my life have started. But what to get my Nan has been a project I have been working on for a while and it finally arrived today. An album full of photos and memories from the special day she turned 80 surrounded by family and friends. I know this will be a gift she will treasure forever, on the bookcase standing next to the album we did for my Pop when he turned 80. A set of books full of treasured memories standing side by side forever.
